You know that movie where something happens to the guy and he gets amnesia? Yeah, that guy. Then he spends the rest of the show trying to solve a crime or something.
We are that guy.
Everyone single one of us on this earth is an amnesiac of sorts. We don’t remember what happened to us before we got here. In religious terms, we call it “passing through the veil of forgetfulness.” Same idea.
Now, going the other direction, there are a lot of people who have no idea as to what happens after this life either. Some have just decided that the answer is an absolute nothing. When we die, it is over. Done. Fini!
Now, let that settle in for a minute and think about how thinking that way might impact your life. If there was nothing before, and nothing after, then all there is is now. Today. This moment.
What would that look like? A free-for-all.
Turn on the news. That’s what it looks like. People have been tossing aside aside ideals of morality and community in order to pursue their own interests since the beginning. And why not? Korihor (the Anti-Christ) explained it this way:
“…every man fared in this life according to the management of the creature; therefore every man prospered according to his genius, and that every man conquered according to his strength; and whatsoever a man did was no crime.
And thus he did preach unto them, leading away the hearts of many, causing them to lift up their heads in their wickedness, yea, leading away many women, and also men, to commit whoredoms—telling them that when a man was dead, that was the end thereof.” (Alma 30: 17-18)
Makes sense, right? If it all ends when we are dead, we may as well say, “…eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die…” (2 Nephi 28:7)
The problem there is that that path does not lead to happiness, rather to chaos and entropy. Again – turn on the news.
As we make the run up to Thanksgiving this week, I know that there are people out there who don’t care, or even worse, they hate this particular holiday. Some blow right past it to get to Christmas. Sadder still, some do not feel a sense of “gratitude” for anything – because frankly – their life sucks. It is tragic.
Broken hearts and homes, serious illness, financial disasters, family problems, shattered hopes and dreams, fear, etc. All of these things, and more can strip the hope right out of our lives – and as hope diminishes, so does a sense of gratitude. Most people aren’t apt to sing praises to God in their Job-like moments – they would more likely follow the advice of Job’s friends to “curse God, and die.” (Job 2:9)
As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we have a distinct advantage when it comes to finding ways to be thankful:
Perspective.
Through ancient and modern prophets, we have a perspective that is wildly different than most people. It is also much broader than most. We can read in several places where the Lord took a newly-called prophet on a journey through time to see the beginning to the end – kind of a “prophet-prep” course on perspective. And they shared these visions with us. Why?
Because when we can see how it started, all the way through to how things end up, it makes what we are doing now – right this very moment – a part of a much larger picture. A picture that make sense.
Suddenly, all the heartache, misery, suffering, trials and challenges are also part of that bigger picture. A picture that can have a very, very happy ending. And therein exists hope.
If we find ourselves in a dark place where we can’t find anything to be thankful for (and it doe happen), then we have lost perspective. We are caught up in the misery of the moment, and turning a blind eye to the timeline of our existence that stretches out – infinitely – in both directions.
When Joseph Smith was struggling with his perspective in Liberty Jail, the Lord gave him what for:
“And if thou shouldst be cast into the pit, or into thehands of murderers, and the sentence of death passed upon thee; if thou be cast into the deep; if the billowing surge conspire against thee; if fierce winds become thine enemy; if the heavens gather blackness, and all the elements combine to hedge up the way; and above all, if the very jaws of hell shall gape open the mouth wide after thee, know thou, my son, that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good.“ (D&C 122:7)
We should be, as a people, and individually, the most thankful people on the planet. When it comes to making lists of things to be thankful for, our problem should be writer’s cramp. We have a perspective and insight into what really matters. We know how things will end up – we already know which team wins. We understand why life sucks sometimes. We know the purpose of suffering and trials.
We know God. We know he has a plan for us. We know we can emerge victorious.
We understand the Atonement of Jesus Christ, and through the ordinances of the gospel, we have access to it. Relatively few people on the Earth can make that statement.
I am thankful for the knowledge God has shared with us, and the increased perspective it gives us. There is more than this. There is more than now.
So much more.
Here are a few links to General Conference talks that deal with hope and perspective:
“The Reason for Our Hope.” President Boyd K. Packer
“Hope.” Elder Steven E. Snow
“The Infinite Power of Hope.” President Deiter F. Uchdorf
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Our bishop, who was a trainer for the local CERT (community emergency response team) organization, taught us that an attitude of gratitude made us better prepared. In any disaster, from the individual crises to the classic earthquake, fire, etc. he said that the people who were in the habit of appreciating their blessings were the people most able to take stock of the situation and figure out how to deal with it, rather than getting sucked into a spiral of despair. Then they could not only cope with their own needs, but go into action if needed and help others.
I’m speaking in Sacrament Meeting Sunday 29 Nov. Thanks for your insight about why we should be the happiest, most grateful people on the earth. I saw a research project that put us up at the top of the chart at 89% (tied with Jehovah’s Witnesses) of people who show gratitude regularly based on their faith. Where are the other 11%? Anyway, I am using your blog as a reference, I hope that is all right with you. Yes, I am acknowledging you as the source. I’m trying to show how true gratitude leads to peace and happiness, pleasant countenance, and a stronger faith; it does you know. Thank you.
Feel free to use whatever you would like. I am flattered.
Beautiful reminder. Thank you!
Wonderful thoughts for this time of year… and all the others, too.
Nice to see you around again – you have been missed!
Being one of your biggest fans (ask anyone, I refer to you and your blog all the time) – I love when we are on the same page. 🙂 You might enjoy this:
http://www.jojobjerga.com/2015/10/06/pain-and-perspective/
I love this post! I am so grateful that because of the Savior’s atoning sacrifice, I get to keep all the good, and all the bad will just fall away, either now or later.
Love the thought- “we already know which team wins.” Our job is just to make sure we’re wearing the right jersey and following the playbook.
The sections about perspective (I never thought before about this being why the Brother of Jared and others saw the beginning all the way to the end) brings to mind this quote from Sister Reeves: (yet again- I have shared this so many times with various people since the women’s session of conference)
“Understandably, many have expressed that our Father’s promised blessings are just “way too far away,” particularly when our lives are overflowing with challenges. But Amulek taught that “this life is the time … to prepare to meet God.” It is not the time to receive all of our blessings. President Packer explained, “‘And they all lived happily ever after’ is never written into the second act. That line belongs in the third act, when the mysteries are solved and everything is put right.” However, a vision of our Father’s incredible promised blessings must be the central focus before our eyes every day—as well as an awareness “of the multitude of his tender mercies” that we experience on a daily basis.
“Sisters, I do not know why we have the many trials that we have, but it is my personal feeling that the reward is so great, so eternal and everlasting, so joyful and beyond our understanding that in that day of reward, we may feel to say to our merciful, loving Father, “Was that all that was required?” I believe that if we could daily remember and recognize the depth of that love our Heavenly Father and our Savior have for us, we would be willing to do anything to be back in Their presence again, surrounded by Their love eternally. What will it matter, dear sisters, what we suffered here if, in the end, those trials are the very things which qualify us for eternal life and exaltation in the kingdom of God with our Father and Savior?”
Wonderful thoughts. It goes right along with a conference talk from October 1987″Yet Thou Art There” Neal A. Maxwell
Thank you for sharing your uplifting thoughts!
Thanks so much for reminding me that I’m in the middle of a story with a very happy ending? Right now I’m in chemotherapy for breast cancer and it’s miserable. I’m holding on to the iron rod and thankful I know the whole story.
Beautifully said. We have so much to be thankful for! The plan of salvation is a wonderful gift. Happy Thanksgiving to all.
As an admitted addict to The Peoples Court, I am continually amazed at the number of cases that are caused by ingratitude. What a lot of heartache it causes. And it costs nothing to express gratitude and live by it. It makes us better people. My favorite scripture says we should “live in thanksgiving daily…” (Alma 34:38). If everyone did this, what a world we could be.
ahhh… perspective. My favorite line from one of my favorite songs, “I will marvel at the instance when my cares are swept away. All the pain inside, and questions why, as perspective takes its place.”
Nice lyric. But shouldn’t we already be at that place?
The song is talking about when we meet the Savior after this life. I look forward to that increased perspective.